Getting inducted into the world of asking a lady out didn’t actually start for me on a good note,  as it is with most guys. There will always be this girl that you admire so much and you fantasize about her all the time, but you have no idea what to say to her. What happened in those days was that your friends that were ‘bad’ would do the talking on your behalf and after she had agreed to your proposal,
then a meeting would be scheduled for you both and then you finalise the deal. 

But what deal? What did I have in my head to say, I remember being connected to a pretty SS1 lady then when I was in SS3, Shalewa. This girl was so pretty and young like my self. And I had always admired her from afar. I decided to let Samuel know about it. Samuel was one of my friends that lived within the estate around my school. You would conclude these ones were there when their parents met eachother, they just knew everything about women at a very tender age. 

Well it was definitely because of the environment they grew up in. An estate, especially a public one is where you meet people of different social class to mingle with. So you would always posses that charisma if you are disposed towards that. 

The deal was sealed with Shalewa and it was my turn to round it all off. We met and before meeting her, it was just like a tsunami was taking place in my heart. My heart was beating non stop. While I was with her, we exchanged greetings and instead of just going straight to the point, I started blabbing and saying all sorts of irrelevant things.

 I initially asked her why ladies loved putting on the kind of sandals she was wearing, I then asked the reason why she used lips gloss, and couldn’t ladies do without rubbing pancake. Guessed she was getting bored with my JAMB questions, she asked me what I liked about her. I knew my own Don set at that moment. 

Before I knew what was happening, my legs had begun to shake, my palms were so wet, you would think LAGOS state Water Corporation pipes were installed in them. I swallowed a pint of saliva, cleared my throat for up to 4 times and finally let the cat out of the bag.  ‘ S….sssssamuel should have told you eee…..everything’ I stammered . 

‘ Yes, he did, but what do you want from me?  What do you like about me? ‘ She was getting furious already.

 ‘ Nothing, I just like you’ I replied. 

‘ You are funny. You like nothing about me and you just like me. Do you know what you are saying at all? ‘

‘ Yes, I know what am saying, that’s why I said I like you’ At that moment, I was wishing we had not started it all. This was getting confusing and my 1st love in High School was just slipping away from my grip. 

‘ Go and ask Samuel what you like about me and tell me tomorrow ‘ She said. 

‘ Okay, so Samuel knows that. I responded stupidly, don’t worry I will ask him and tell you tomorrow ‘

She just shook here head and left me there on that spot. 

When I narrated the whole ordeal to my friends, they just kept laughing and insisted I never said that. That I must be joking. ‘ Wait Sanya, you mean you told her you would ask me, what you like about her? What village are you from dunce? ‘ I knew since he was not gonna tell me that, I should just forget about the girl. I felt so bad and I couldn’t eat for days. 

That was not the heartbreak I really want to write about, anyway. This happened with a lady I met at an event in Ilesha, Osun state. Misimi was her name, a student of FUTA then, she happened to be my first true love and as well gave me my first heart break. Was it a heart break? No, she murdered my heart, because I felt the pains for close to 4 months. Thank God, It happened when ASUU had a long strike, I would have been affected seriously academically. It was a very bad phase of my life. I thought about it before I slept most nights and the first thing that came to my mind after waking up was the misery I was passing through. It was a hell of a period. 

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Getting inducted into the world of asking a lady out didn't actually start for me on a good note,  as it is with most guys. There will always be this girl that you admire so much and you fantasize about her all the time, but you have no idea...